That is my advice to everyone! Get out there and seize the day! Seize your life! Make the most of every single minute.
My life is crazy hectic right now and I am LOVING every minute of it!
Besides running my full-time massage practice for the 12th year and building my photography business, I am attending iPEC to become a certified life coach and transitioning into an additional career over 50 years old. I have weekly webinars, coaching assignments, reading assignments, journaling assignments, assignments from my coaches and elective assignments. I have all the moving parts of building a business from the ground up, like creating the website, the logo, the marketing, and a blog. I won’t bore you with ALL the details, but suffice to say that 7 days a week I have been keeping at it pretty steady. Last Wednesday I had 3 massage clients and 3 coaching clients. I went to work at 8:30am and finished my last coaching call that night at 8pm.
I am not complaining, I am THRIVING! I am passionate about learning and practicing coaching. It’s practically like a drug to me, I am just dying to do it again. And again.
So it’s really easy to let my entire life be absorbed by it. Jeremy and I even canceled a date day 2 weeks ago because I had something that HAD to get finished! (It was terribly important, though I can’t seem to recall now what it was!). But as fulfilling as all this is for me, the “must-dos” are still edging out the “want-tos” and that’s never healthy. Occasionally we must come up for air!
Thursday/Friday are my days off and I almost always have those days scheduled as carefully as a work day to get the most done in the most efficient way. Last Thursday was to be spring cleaning and homework. I have a list of assignments that can keep me busy till May if I apply myself often enough, and I really like the energy of a sparkling CLEAN home on the first day of spring, scheduled to arrive Wednesday of next week.
But instead of housework and homework on Thursday, my daughter and I seized the sunshine and headed to the beach for a very short respite from the responsibilities in our lives. She protested when I suggested it, saying she needed to be at work by 3pm.
I recalled days from her childhood when I would drop her and her brother at school, pick up a friend, head to Bodega Bay, spend a couple hours and be home in time to get them from school. “I’ll have you back by 2,” I promised. She was all in.
It was GLORIOUS! It was only supposed to be 55˚ but it must have been closer to 65˚. The sun shone bright and the wind stood down. We stripped to swim suits and were giddy enough on long-absent sunshine, that we actually forded Salmon Creek before we had a chance to realize what a misguided and dangerous idea that was. We crossed back right away and it didn’t get up over our waists, but truly – our day was Goddess-blessed with safety as well as sunshine and sparkling waves.
It’s a 90 minute drive from Vallejo to Salmon Creek Beach. We enjoyed a healthy lunch overlooking the ocean. We hiked in the sand. We collected shells for my altar. We stretched out on the sand and let the vitamin D soak into our skin. I’m sure we mooned more than one passing car as we struggled out of creek-soaked clothes to put on something dry. We relaxed and absorbed all of that glorious, crashing, thrashing, battery-charging energy!
We had two spontaneous, magnificent hours of complete freedom.
Then we drove 90 minutes home listening to music and singing. I cannot think of anything that could have lifted me more!
Seize the day! Do something unexpected. Grab the chance to have fun with a friend, even if just an hour or two.
Your soul lives for these moments. These are the moments that nourish you and feed you the strength to get through the next twelve hour day.
If you don’t seize the opportunities to create joy along the way, what on earth are we doing here?!
Enjoy your life every chance you get. Carpe diem!
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