{"id":2232,"date":"2019-10-13T01:11:08","date_gmt":"2019-10-13T01:11:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/?p=2232"},"modified":"2024-05-15T10:35:02","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T17:35:02","slug":"what-you-really-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/2019\/10\/13\/what-you-really-want\/","title":{"rendered":"What You REALLY Want"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Human beings want all kinds of different stuff, and that\u2019s cool!&nbsp; Desire draws life-giving Source energy into our lives.  The desires my clients most often name are healthier bodies, heftier paychecks, happier relationships, &amp; more habitual travel.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But <em>why<\/em> do we want any of these things?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Because of the way they make us <em>feel<\/em>.&nbsp; <\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The only reason we ever want anything is because of the way we expect to feel when we have it.  So, let\u2019s focus on that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Imagine yourself in your ideal life.<\/strong>  Imagine all of your dreams have come true.&nbsp; You have the soul-mate, the amazing career, the water-view home, whatever it is you desire most.  Imagine you are living that now.&nbsp; <em>FEEL<\/em> it.&nbsp; Feel the emotions&nbsp; &#8211; whatever emotions you imagine you will feel in the moment you attain your highest goal.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Wow!<\/strong>  Take a few minutes to marinate in those feelings.&nbsp; Let them wash over you like an ocean wave crashing against the shore, and permeate every cell of your body!&nbsp; <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>THAT is what we really want!&nbsp; That feeling of contentment, joy, fulfillment, confidence, whatever emotion it is that you believe the peak experience you desire will allow you to feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">QUICK!&nbsp; Name those emotions and write them down. &nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If you feel inspired, take a few minutes to journal about how you feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This is your true goal <\/strong>&#8211; not the house, or the job, or the lover, or the money.  The way these things make you feel is what you are longing for.&nbsp; And HERE&#8217;s the KICKER: the more time you spend steeped in the emotions you long for, the faster your dreams manifest!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is also really helpful if you are feeling confused about a choice you are making.  Ask yourself, \u201cWill this choice allow me to feel\u2026\u201d whatever emotions you listed above.  This is a quick way to gauge whether or not the choices you make are moving you toward your goals!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, it\u2019s a sense of vitality, confidence, connection, and calm that I truly desire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"614\" src=\"http:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-choices1-1024x614.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2235\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-choices1-1024x614.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-choices1-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-choices1-768x461.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/confident-choices1.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>I was absolutely feeling relaxed, vital, connected and confident when my partner captured this image of me!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Moving forward in this blog, I will regularly add a self-exploration section aimed at growing your consciousness.  Let me know how it inspires you, or which questions you find most helpful!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Grow on!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>What is it you truly want?<br>What part of that answer surprises you?<br>What part resonates as truth?<br>What decisions does this information help you clarify?<br>How will you use this new information moving forward?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"614\" src=\"http:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Grow-copy-1024x614.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2249\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Grow-copy-1024x614.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Grow-copy-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Grow-copy-768x461.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Grow-copy.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Human beings want all kinds of different stuff, and that\u2019s cool!&nbsp; Desire draws life-giving Source energy into our lives. 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