{"id":5985,"date":"2021-10-22T01:11:20","date_gmt":"2021-10-22T08:11:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/?p=5985"},"modified":"2024-05-15T10:31:40","modified_gmt":"2024-05-15T17:31:40","slug":"ask-yourself-this-important-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/2021\/10\/22\/ask-yourself-this-important-question\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Yourself this Important Question"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Several times a day, I hear my partner ask our dog, \u201cWhat do you need?\u201d&nbsp; Each time telepathy relays the answer and a walk ensues, or lunch, or a rousing game of squeaky ball.&nbsp; I\u2019m only human, so I started to feel a little resentful toward the dog, and wondered who was looking attentively after my needs. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well whose job is that?\u00a0 (Hint: It\u2019s not my partner&#8217;s, and when that\u2019s what I think, I become resentful.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a little coaching, I remembered that it\u2019s mine.&nbsp; It\u2019s my job to be sure my needs are being met.&nbsp; So I started asking myself, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What do I need right now?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s incredible what a difference that little question makes!&nbsp; Not only are more of my needs being met, but I feel genuinely cared for and supported!&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Crazy, right?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eighty percent of the time the answer is water, so I hydrate.\u00a0 Often I just need a few minutes to catch my breath, so I allow myself to sit and breathe.\u00a0 <strong><em>Can you imagine?!<\/em><\/strong>  When I need to catch my breath, I just sit and breathe for two minutes instead of feeling frustrated, and resentful that my needs are not being met, as I rush off to do whatever comes next.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"614\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/breathing-1024x614.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5036\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/breathing-1024x614.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/breathing-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/breathing-768x461.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/breathing.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It seems so simple, yet how often do we do it?&nbsp; How often are we checking in with what we need in this moment?&nbsp; The answer for most of us is not very often because our culture conditions us to think of that as being selfish, and regularly encourages us to put other\u2019s needs before our own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What we NEED shifts moment to moment and day to day, so it\u2019s not going to be the same every time you ask\/answer the question.&nbsp; And what we need is not always the same as what we want.&nbsp; We might want coffee to get us through the afternoon at work, but if we ask what we truly need and genuinely listen for the answer, we may find we need a twenty-minute nap, or a ten-minute walk outside, or a cup of herbal tea, or electrolytes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What would it be like if we asked ourself this question once a day? Twice a day? All day long?&nbsp; What changes when we ask the question before reaching for a processed snack food?&nbsp; What will shift if we ask the question all week?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s possible we\u2019ll feel more cared for and supported.&nbsp; It\u2019s possible we\u2019ll feel happier and more relaxed.&nbsp; We might even have more energy to give to the people and projects we\u2019re passionate about.&nbsp; Truly tuning in to our body\u2019s needs will reveal deeper wisdom that might be the key to finally reaching our ideal weight.&nbsp; We won\u2019t know the vast extent of what\u2019s possible until we try!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Grow on!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ask yourself, \u201cWhat do I need right now?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it\u2019s something simple like rest, water, or a bathroom break, give that to yourself!  If it\u2019s something bigger like a new career, you can ask, \u201cwhat steps do I need to take right now to move in that direction?\u201d  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Coaching can help!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>I offer the first TWO coaching sessions free of charge so you can see if coaching is right for you, and also see if I\u2019m the right coach for you!\u00a0 If we\u2019re not a good match, I have a long list of peers to whom I can refer you.\u00a0 You\u2019ll walk away with at least one action step to move you toward your goal, so you have nothing to lose!\u00a0 Book your first session <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"HERE (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/square.site\/book\/F1ZGACGQ5Z15F\/cyndi-combs-vallejo-ca\" target=\"_blank\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/DSC04162_Montenegro-1-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/DSC04162_Montenegro-1-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/DSC04162_Montenegro-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/DSC04162_Montenegro-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/DSC04162_Montenegro-1.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Several times a day, I hear my partner ask our dog, \u201cWhat do you need?\u201d&nbsp; 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