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Most of us know that when we look good, we tend to feel good. But are you aware that the opposite is also true?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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When we feel good, we look good.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Think about a time when you felt really great about yourself. How much more comfortable were you in your own skin? How powerful and confident did you feel? When we feel accomplished, triumphant, successful, truly loved, filled with purpose – of course we look better. Our body chemistry is completely different than when we feel confused, failed, unloved, directionless, or under attack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is common in this world, I have noticed, for people who are reaching for a weight-loss goal to try to reach that goal by forcing, harassing, restricting, stressing, pushing, and hating themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is also common to decide that the body is not right by societal standards, so it must not be liked, in fact it must be hated. We feel we must hate the body into submission, hate our eating issues for making us fat, hate food for being so fattening and delicious at the same time, hate our appetite, flog ourselves at the gym until we finally reach a weight where we will feel better about ourselves, or just give up entirely and eat for solace because we are so damned imperfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If any of this resonates for you, you\u2019re not alone! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Somehow this crazy world has conditioned us (brainwashed us through media propaganda, and advertising campaigns designed to sell a magic fix for bodies that are not right by societal standards) to believe that we must hate ourselves until we reach their standards. To which I feel compelled to reply:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I invite you to join me in saying, \u201cFuck their standards.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If they don\u2019t like my body, FUCK them. Because you know what I decided to do? I decided to approve of my body right now. I decided that their standards are fucking stupid, and they do not appeal to me, so they do not apply to me because I am the authority on what is fucking beautiful in my life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Why?<\/strong> Cause it\u2019s my life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Their judgements only count if I give them validity and I just revoked their right to decide anything for me. I choose to decide for myself. I invite each of you to step into your own power and decide for your self what is beautiful in your life, because who the fuck are THEY<\/em> anyway? Who are they to judge ME unworthy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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I am a child of God, a conduit of Divine love and light, and I will not dim my light to allow them to feel comfortable in my presence<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They want me to feel diminished, unworthy, and powerless so that they can grow rich and feel better about themselves. Fuck that! And while we’re at it, fuck the collective ‘them’ who believes they are anyone’s authority on what is good and right and beautiful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If we feel more beautiful when we are feeling truly loved, then what POWER we wield when we choose to truly love ourselves as we are<\/em><\/strong>, without waiting for the approval of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I choose to feel my true divinity flowing through me. I choose to feel confident and powerful. And every time I feel the Divine Truth of Who I am<\/em>, I look fucking amazing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
photo by donnio, on a day when i felt GREAT and it shows.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n
Grow on!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
What is stopping you from feeling good about you NOW? <\/li>
What baby steps can you take toward loving yourself more now? <\/li>
What kind of example do you want to set for your children and grandchildren?<\/li>
Each time you become aware that negative self-talk arises, what can you say to remind yourself to move gently back in the direction of self-love?<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Somehow this crazy world has conditioned us to believe that we must hate ourselves until we reach their standards. To which I feel compelled to reply Fuck Their Fucking Standards.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6855,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34,13,11,10,19,36],"tags":[48,51,66,57,60,59,40,46,43,45,42,52,56,49,55],"class_list":["post-6852","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-body-image","category-empowerment","category-mindset","category-self-care","category-spirituality","category-stress-release","tag-body-image-healing","tag-eating-coach","tag-embodiment","tag-energized","tag-energy-coach","tag-mind-body-spirit","tag-mindset","tag-nourishment","tag-personal-growth","tag-raise-the-vibe","tag-self-care","tag-self-love","tag-thriving","tag-unconditional-love","tag-weight-release"],"yoast_head":"\n
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