{"id":8525,"date":"2023-04-07T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-07T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/?p=8525"},"modified":"2025-07-14T13:37:43","modified_gmt":"2025-07-14T20:37:43","slug":"overeating-shame-break-the-cycle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/2023\/04\/07\/overeating-shame-break-the-cycle\/","title":{"rendered":"Overeating &#038; Shame ~ Break the Cycle"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Overeating is NOT a willpower problem. Overeating is NOT a personal failing! Overeating is rooted in science. If we are overeating, there are almost always biological reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are not weak willed. We are not broken.<br>There is nothing wrong with us that needs fixing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>This means we can let go of the SHAME of overeating!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means there is no need to beat up on ourselves as most humans tend to do. Overeating and shame are as intertwined as a blackberry bramble, and ten times as injurious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once we address the scientific reasons for the overeating and untangle the shame, the behavior diminishes greatly, and loses it\u2019s power.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Overeating is rooted in<\/strong>&#8230;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/science.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8542\" width=\"283\" height=\"283\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/science.png 398w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/science-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/science-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/science-100x100.png 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 283px) 100vw, 283px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>The brain is biologically wired to scream HUNGRY when nutritional needs are not being met. We are <em>biologically driven<\/em> to answer that need, even if we just ate a full meal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator aligncenter\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s look at some common reasons the brain might decide our nutritional needs have not been met, and scream HUNGRY, triggering us to eat more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>STRESS<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The human response to stress is fight or flight. Our stress response moves energy AWAY from digestion so that it can be used to fight or flee. <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.bioticsresearch.com\/nutrients-depleted-when-you-are-stressed-and-what-to-do-about-it\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">This leads to nutrient wasting<\/a>.&nbsp; Our brain is scanning for nutrients, but if the nutrients we\u2019re eating are being excreted because we are chronically stressed out, we <em>MUST<\/em> eat more to satisfy nutritional needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>FAST EATING<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Eating fast means that our brain does not have the required time to register the meal and the nutrients we take in. The brain\u2019s requirements are not met, and it tells us in no uncertain terms that we are HUNGRY and we <em>MUST<\/em> eat more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>LOW CALORIES\/STRINGENT DIETING<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Calorie requirements vary day to day depending on activity levels and more. Our brain is scanning for adequate energy, but if we are restricting calories, we naturally&nbsp;feel HUNGRY if we have not provided enough fuel.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we are restricting calories to a point where we do not have enough fuel, doesn\u2019t it make complete sense that the brain will scream HUNGRY?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>MISSING MACRONUTRIENTS<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Macronutrients are food types required in large amounts to survive.<br><strong>Carbohydrates<\/strong> &#8211; grains, potatoes, fruits &amp; veggies, and refined sugars<br><strong>Proteins<\/strong> &#8211; meat, fish, eggs, nuts, beans, and seeds<br><strong>Healthy Fats = Essential Fatty Acids<\/strong> &#8211; fish, seeds, nuts, avocados, olives, coconut<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lpi.oregonstate.edu\/mic\/other-nutrients\/essential-fatty-acids\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Essential Fatty Acids<\/strong>:<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>are essential building block of hormones<\/li><li>regulate brain &amp; nervous system<\/li><li>regulate our immune system<\/li><li>have been linked to reduced rates of cancer and heart disease<\/li><li>are vital to reproductive function.&nbsp; Conception and viable pregnancy do not occur in the absence of Essential Fatty Acids.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Healthy-Fats-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8650\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Healthy-Fats-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Healthy-Fats-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Healthy-Fats-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Healthy-Fats.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a common misconception that eating fats makes us fat, but without essential fatty acids, we grow ill and die. If we are lacking in essential fatty acids, our brain screams HUNGRY and we <em>MUST<\/em> eat more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><strong>Water is a macronutrient<\/strong><\/strong> and makes up 60% of the human body. Our brain is scanning for nutrients. If macronutrients are found lacking &#8211; even water &#8211; the brain screams HUNGRY, and we will be BIOLOGICALLY DRIVEN to eat more even if we\u2019re really thirsty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>LOW NUTRIENT FOODS<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>If we eat low quality food, or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.monarquehealth.com\/blog\/5-things-poor-nutrition-does-to-your-overall-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">low-nutrient food<\/a>, we may not be getting the nutrients required for health. Our brain is scanning for nutrients, but if we aren\u2019t getting adequate amounts for health our brain screams HUNGRY and we naturally <em>MUST<\/em> eat more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>MEAL SKIPPING<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Appetite is our friend.&nbsp; Without appetite, we stop eating and we die. Skipping meals leads to being truly hungry. Appetite is the correct biological response to hunger. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Eating when hungry = Life. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ignoring hunger and skipping meals can lead directly to overeating at the very next meal simply because we are underfed, or overeating at the end of day because we didn\u2019t allow ourselves the time to eat when our appetite cued us to eat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If we haven\u2019t eaten all day, or haven\u2019t eaten much during the day, the correct biological response is hunger. Our brain will SCREAM that we are hungry, and we will be <em><strong>driven<\/strong><\/em> to eat more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>It makes complete sense to eat when hungry, and to eat MORE when ravenous<\/strong>!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Overeating is NOT a willpower problem, nor a personal failing!<\/li><li>There are many biological reasons for overeating. I only named a few.<\/li><li>The brain will always drive the body to eat more when it determines that we are in nutritional need.<\/li><li>The brain will always drive the body to eat more when it determines that we have a deficit in energy (calories).<\/li><li>The brain will always drive the body to eat more when it determines that food is in short supply.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Since overeating is rooted in science, we can release the SHAME attached to overeating!<\/strong> And often when we address the underlying biological reasons, the overeating vanishes!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Kindness Key<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/key.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8586\" width=\"97\" height=\"207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/key.png 458w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/key-141x300.png 141w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 97px) 100vw, 97px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Once we address the biological reasons, if we are still compulsively overeating, then KINDNESS, CURIOSITY, and AWARENESS are our best allies!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kindness First!<\/strong><br>Remember that this is not a personal failing, nor does it have anything to do with willpower. Using food to soothe is a strategy as old as time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>We feel bad, we eat food,<\/strong> <strong>we feel better.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a highly effective tactic that works every time, and you are not the only person who has figured this out. You are NOT the only human using food to soothe, I promise. The problems arise when we use food to soothe too frequently, <em>AND<\/em>\u2026 when we feel shame about the behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we use overeating frequently, it can cause a wide range of health challenges, and the shame we heap on ourselves for using this brilliant coping mechanism can do more damage than the overeating itself!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/mental-health\/what-is-toxic-shame\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Shame is the most toxic of all our emotions<\/a>, and puts us into direct opposition of our core vibration, which is unconditional love. That\u2019s why shame feels so ICKY. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we are IN alignment with the energy of love &#8211; the energy at our core &#8211; we feel AMAZING. We feel energized, fired up, and ready to meet any challenge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we are OUT of alignment with our core energy we feel exhausted, depressed, and unmotivated. When we are in shame &#8211; the polar opposite of unconditional love &#8211; we feel as exhausted, depressed, and unmotivated as is humanly possible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Overeating and shame can feel like an unbreakable cycle.&nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>We use food to soothe. We beat ourselves up for it. We feel like crap, and\u2026 we use food to soothe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The key to break the cycle is to meet your behavior with KINDNESS instead of criticism.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/self-love-IMAGE-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8647\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/self-love-IMAGE-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/self-love-IMAGE-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I understand this may seem too simple. It seems like overeating is the issue and the bit we need to change, but we can\u2019t change the behavior as long as we continue to beat ourselves up for the behavior (which causes hurt feelings that need soothing).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The key is kindness.<\/strong> We can be kind to ourselves instead of critical. We can take a deep breath and remind ourself that we are human, that we are using an effective human strategy, and that nothing has gone wrong. We can give ourself a big hug, like we might hug a friend who was dealing with challenging emotions. We can look for other ways to soothe ourself effectively.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>This is how we break the cycle.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>NOT<\/em> by creating more emotions that need soothing, and <em>NOT<\/em> by judging ourself bad, wrong, or unworthy just because we are human. As we begin to accept the behavior of overeating as something we do &#8211; and not as something that defines <em>who we are<\/em> &#8211; we have room to use curiosity to increase our awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kindness unlocks Curiosity!<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Once we are no longer draining energy in self-criticism, we have energy to get curious about what\u2019s really going on for us!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>We can ask questions like:<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What triggered the overeating?<\/li><li>What thought was I thinking?<\/li><li>What emotion was I trying to soothe?<\/li><li>What was I really hungry for?<\/li><li>What would have been most nourishing for me?<\/li><li>How can I soothe myself other than with food?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Curiosity increases our Awareness!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We can become aware of when, where, what, and <em>why<\/em> we are overeating. We can cultivate awareness about what we\u2019re thinking on a regular basis, and which thoughts seem to drive us toward overeating. Without the judgement and criticism occupying our energy and attention, we can see what\u2019s really going on. Awareness is always the first step in creating change, so<em> if we want to change a behavior, we want to get curious about it and grow our awareness.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Overeating is rooted in science, so we can use the key of kindness to release the shame, unlock our curiosity, and grow our awareness. With our awareness, the behavior loses it\u2019s power, and we are free to choose change, if we wish to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Grow on!<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If you are overeating, you are not alone<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Which biological causes of overeating can you play with to help release  the behavior?<\/li><li>When you hear the inner critic, how possible is it to take a deep breath, and choose kindness?<\/li><li>Get Curious in your journal:<ul><li>What triggered the overeating?<\/li><li>What thought was I thinking?<\/li><li>What emotion was I trying to soothe?<\/li><li>What was I really hungry for?<\/li><li>What would have been most nourishing for me?<\/li><li>How can I soothe myself other than with food?<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"521\" src=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom-1024x521.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8606\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom-1024x521.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom-300x153.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom-768x391.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom-1536x781.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Freedom.jpg 1650w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I help clients release shame, and overeating! <br>My next <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/cyndicombs.com\/coaching\/relief-through-release-playgroup\/\" target=\"_blank\">Relief through Release Playgroup<\/a> starts SOON!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Overeating is rooted in science. 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