Stop Shoulding on Yourself!

Has shoulding yourself into action EVER been effective? Honestly?  Most people find that feeling we “should” do something drains our energy, so it’s demotivating rather than motivating.  Should-dos and must-dos weigh heavily on the shoulders and mind. Should is “could” with shame attached, and shame is the very lowest vibration.  Read more…

Grasping Detachment

To understand detachment more fully Tosha Silver is a master teacher, and my sensei! Her most recent book, It’s Not Your Money, is about releasing our attachment to money, freeing ourselves of fear around finances, and offering everything, not just money, to a Higher Power (Source, God/Goddess, Universe, Divine, whatever Read more…

Discomfort Foods

I love food!  A little too much maybe? Humans love delicious food to celebrate the good times, and we use food to soothe ourselves during challenging times. Self-soothing with food is something to which most of us relate, though I’ve heard people say they don’t like the term ‘self-soothing’ or Read more…