Always choose love. Always. Okay? End of post. What more is there to say? Always choose love. I hear clients ask, “What if they don’t DESERVE my love?!” Choosing to feel love benefits YOU. Choosing negative emotions harms YOU. It has nothing to do with what they deserve. What do Read more
My life is BUSY! Much like yours, no doubt. We all have jobs to get to every day, and some of us have second jobs. Some of us commute and that can be like a second job. I feel fortunate to live ten minutes from my office, so that’s not Read more
From Rachel Hollis in Girl, Wash Your Face: “When you boil it down, that’s the heart of the problem with my father. He couldn’t understand what to do with a small child, let alone a girl. Since he didn’t understand me, he often unintentionally muted the parts of me that Read more
This insidious question can perpetuate a cycle of darkness that will feed itself to infinity if we do not disrupt the pattern. “Who cares?” is a thought. Thoughts are what cause our emotions. Emotions drive our actions and the actions we take make up our life. What sort of emotions Read more
I am not suggesting that we give up our goals. Goals are crucial to creating the life we dream of living. They give destination to the intentions that drive us, and the values that guide us. Goal = destination.Intention = driver.Values = navigation. All three are crucial when it comes Read more
Let’s use “horse” as an analogy for whatever new behavior you are trying to integrate into your life. Every time we try a new “horse” our gremlins get their knickers in a twist. They HATE letting us outside our comfort zones. So when we try something new and we fall Read more
Focus on just ONE thing. Humans often feel overwhelmed because there is so MUCH we choose to do. We just can’t fit it all in our heads sometimes. So pick just ONE, and focus on that. Yes, you want it all. You deserve it all, and you can have it Read more
Feeling overwhelmed? You’re NOT alone! Most humans (and I would venture to guess ALL parents) feel overwhelmed at least some of the time, and especially during the holidays. But what is overwhelm? The dictionary defines it as “bury or drown beneath a huge mass.” When most of us talk about Read more
The reason I became a coach is to help people live the greatest version of themselves. To that end, I find it crucial to practice joy daily. I also think it’s vital to keep a tool kit lying around that contains tools that lift my spirits. Whether I start with Read more
Awareness is a powerful weapon against the inner critic. I hope that since my previous post you have had an opportunity to observe the critic, to become aware of when it’s speaking to you and what sorts of situations trigger it. Did you observe how gremlin thoughts start to lose Read more